i need your advice, ladies (and gentlemen!) i just received a gorgeous ascher cut eternity band from my husband for my 40th (8 ct. tw). here is the issue: he will also be getting me another gift in the fall: either the love bracelet in yg or i can re-set a diamond ring that my mother gave me. it is approx. 4 ct. oval. i would like to re-set it in a micro-pave setting. any thoughts on which one i should choose??