There are comparison shots somewhere... too sick right now to find them but someone will. The Lorca is wider E-W than the Lilly, but the Lilly is taller (so deeper going down, not back). I think the general consensus is that the Lilly holds more. I've got several Lorcas (no Lilly) and the list you've got there would be a tight fit. I can do a mostly-full carryall, a very small wallet (bi-fold, like the Hawthorne Indexer or a simple card case, not a full-sized wallet), sunglasses, phone, keys and that's about it.
ETA if you want the Lilly/Lorca look but a bit more room, try the Lolita.