I’m a relatively new buyer, but wanted to share my opinion and thoughts with you.
(Background: mid 30s, a scarf person before I started buying H in Nov 2016, own a small selection in various sizes.)
I would suggest as a general rule: buy what YOU love. Don’t purchase something just because it’s supposed to be more “H” (??, up for debate anyway), or classic, difficult to find, fab on others etc. A better “investment” is always something that you know works for you, your style and your wardrobe. If it’s a design and in a CW that speaks to and suits you, that’s all that matters right? Why not spend your money on something you love, it is costly enough.
Panthera Pardus should not be considered simple just because it’s b&w, it’s a beautiful design that probably is even better thanks to the limited colours in the scarf (btw, don’t know if you’ve seen all the CWs, here is a link to all 7: https://forum.purseblog.com/threads/the-hermes-spring-2018-scarves.972540/page-34#post-31857102). I actually tried this b&w PP, it’s beautiful. Is considering another scarf just because it’s more colourful really a viable reason?
If your mom says a 90 looks too mature on you and not in a good way, maybe take that into consideration (that is, only if you value her opinion of course). She’s the one that knows you and your aesthetic, not us strangers, no matter how many people here like or dislike 90s for their own reasons. Consider how you want to wear a scarf. Even if there are many ways to wear it, there is no point to buy one only for this reason if you know it’s not very likely you will wear it other than around your neck.
I don’t believe in a 140 vs 90 as to what’s the best starter scarf. Everyone is different. What is more wearable is always your own preference. Perhaps the 140 is the way for you to go. You will know when you try it.
If you choose to order online, have it delivered to the boutique and try other sizes and materials while you’re there. Since you mention you are indecisive, take someone with you to the store who’s opinion you value and you trust upon. You don’t want to (only) rely on an SA that doesn’t know you, this will prevent you from ending up with a scarf that you later find is not you because you are overwhelmed at the time (the problem with H is that they have so many beautiful items, beware).
A cashmere/silk is less durable, but can be more wearable. It depends on your where you live, your wardrobe, how careful you are. Unlike with silk, you have to be careful with jewelry, rubbing, bags etc. Silk is very carefree. I wouldn’t recommend a CSGM as a first scarf, just because of their high price point combined with it’s delicacy. Unless you are comfortable with both aspects and feel they are of more value to you. Also take a look at the men’s in this regard, they have cashmere/silk scarves in a smaller size too (100cm) in fab designs. (As for the Jaguar Quetzal mentioned earlier, note that it is dark blue/grey, not b&w.)
Some of my own personal thoughts on 90s etc: I myself try to stay away from 90s as much as I can. Mature is not necessarily the word I would use, but they mostly look too “ladylike” for me, that’s not my style. It is due to a combination of the size, fabric, stiffness, shine and the fact that they are so slippery I have to use a knot or scarf ring to keep it in place. They can easily appear quite formal or overdone and I want a more effortless look (mind you, I’m not a casual dresser at all!) . I only own two 90s right now. In spite of the size had to have them because I loved the design (my number one criteria for any scarf). Bigger or smaller sizes, or a different material work better for me. Also, I don’t wear silk in any size during fall or winter.
I don’t think you should just pick a darn scarf and buy it. Have fun with it. Enjoy the process. Make your own decisions. And reveal what you end up with here!
Edit: just read your latest post. Cavalla’s blue one is gorgeous too! You can also consider asking your boutique which CWs they ordered and if they will still come in (that they didn’t have it when you called doesn’t mean they won’t receive it) and notify you. Maybe that way you compare the two IRL. Either way, good luck!
(Background: mid 30s, a scarf person before I started buying H in Nov 2016, own a small selection in various sizes.)
I would suggest as a general rule: buy what YOU love. Don’t purchase something just because it’s supposed to be more “H” (??, up for debate anyway), or classic, difficult to find, fab on others etc. A better “investment” is always something that you know works for you, your style and your wardrobe. If it’s a design and in a CW that speaks to and suits you, that’s all that matters right? Why not spend your money on something you love, it is costly enough.
Panthera Pardus should not be considered simple just because it’s b&w, it’s a beautiful design that probably is even better thanks to the limited colours in the scarf (btw, don’t know if you’ve seen all the CWs, here is a link to all 7: https://forum.purseblog.com/threads/the-hermes-spring-2018-scarves.972540/page-34#post-31857102). I actually tried this b&w PP, it’s beautiful. Is considering another scarf just because it’s more colourful really a viable reason?
If your mom says a 90 looks too mature on you and not in a good way, maybe take that into consideration (that is, only if you value her opinion of course). She’s the one that knows you and your aesthetic, not us strangers, no matter how many people here like or dislike 90s for their own reasons. Consider how you want to wear a scarf. Even if there are many ways to wear it, there is no point to buy one only for this reason if you know it’s not very likely you will wear it other than around your neck.
I don’t believe in a 140 vs 90 as to what’s the best starter scarf. Everyone is different. What is more wearable is always your own preference. Perhaps the 140 is the way for you to go. You will know when you try it.
If you choose to order online, have it delivered to the boutique and try other sizes and materials while you’re there. Since you mention you are indecisive, take someone with you to the store who’s opinion you value and you trust upon. You don’t want to (only) rely on an SA that doesn’t know you, this will prevent you from ending up with a scarf that you later find is not you because you are overwhelmed at the time (the problem with H is that they have so many beautiful items, beware).
A cashmere/silk is less durable, but can be more wearable. It depends on your where you live, your wardrobe, how careful you are. Unlike with silk, you have to be careful with jewelry, rubbing, bags etc. Silk is very carefree. I wouldn’t recommend a CSGM as a first scarf, just because of their high price point combined with it’s delicacy. Unless you are comfortable with both aspects and feel they are of more value to you. Also take a look at the men’s in this regard, they have cashmere/silk scarves in a smaller size too (100cm) in fab designs. (As for the Jaguar Quetzal mentioned earlier, note that it is dark blue/grey, not b&w.)
Some of my own personal thoughts on 90s etc: I myself try to stay away from 90s as much as I can. Mature is not necessarily the word I would use, but they mostly look too “ladylike” for me, that’s not my style. It is due to a combination of the size, fabric, stiffness, shine and the fact that they are so slippery I have to use a knot or scarf ring to keep it in place. They can easily appear quite formal or overdone and I want a more effortless look (mind you, I’m not a casual dresser at all!) . I only own two 90s right now. In spite of the size had to have them because I loved the design (my number one criteria for any scarf). Bigger or smaller sizes, or a different material work better for me. Also, I don’t wear silk in any size during fall or winter.
I don’t think you should just pick a darn scarf and buy it. Have fun with it. Enjoy the process. Make your own decisions. And reveal what you end up with here!
Edit: just read your latest post. Cavalla’s blue one is gorgeous too! You can also consider asking your boutique which CWs they ordered and if they will still come in (that they didn’t have it when you called doesn’t mean they won’t receive it) and notify you. Maybe that way you compare the two IRL. Either way, good luck!
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However, I think it may be too lady-like, even for me. I am sure when I am older it will suit me much more. I like the idea of wearing the larger silk scarf both in a pretty knot but also loosely over the shoulders or even draped over one shoulder. I think it's still elegant and not so casual due to its design and silky luxurious nature, but still not too lady-like. 
Difficult decision
But that doesn’t need to be now. I know what you mean when you say that this format makes you look more mature. I struggle with this myself. But these can be tied a variety of ways, and worn as belts, etc. I also find that certain knots suit me better than others. Lately I’ve been wearing a 90 in a bias fold, simply slung around my neck. No knots. My style is more casual luxe, occasionally sporty. Still figuring out ways to incorporate a 90 silk into my outfits more effortlessly. I feel like a crisp white blouse and jeans is my favorite way to wear a 90 silk.
. I live in the tropics and I'm not partial to cashmere, so I have very few of those. The ones I do have were bought more for the sheer beauty of the design (art in a box).
Just wanted to point out that you should trust your own instincts. You seemed to have fallen in love with Panthera, but are doubting yourself because you see a lot of the more common size or more colourful ones. Also note that the 90 is the size H releases the most of every season by far! 18 (new designs and reissues) versus 8 of the 140 in silk, it is expected they are so visible in the various threads.
One of the things that appeals to me is that the scarves are designed by actual artists, and not a design team of a brand. A lot of them are pieces of art. When I buy a new scarf I always spread it out across my table for at least a day to look at and admire it, and there are even ones that I carefully hang with adhesive tape on a wall for a short amount of time when they are new. 
But I buy to wear them for now.
. But a lot of other brands have spring and cruise collections in stores in November and December. I am sure some will be selling the Fall 2018 collection in a few weeks - so that's how I was thinking about it. Glad I have good timing for the H Spring scarves! I was afraid I was late to the party given the over 300 pages in that 2018 scarf thread. 
which is how the H scarf addiction begins, I'm sure. The hardest decisions, for me, are when there is no wrong choice but the ideal choice isn't clear. Maybe I'll ask in the Spring 2018 thread if anyone has more mod shots. At least I cleared the decision hurdle in terms of size and composition and design - almost there 
) I do find that gray and black colors work well for me however. Would be so much easier if I could just try them on 
