I think it's really classy for a tote bag. A lot of my friends have the bright pink medium shoulder bag and it adds a nice splash of color that definitely stands out in a crowd. And the leather handles make it look a little more elegant than the Herve Chapelier totes. If I were you I'd keep it, but if you feel like it's too bright maybe you can exchange it for a more toned down color like a medium or dark blue?