Hilarious ! I feel your pain and you are NOT alone. I am a man and my lovely Wife reminds me of your husband. I wouldn't say that I am a 'Neat Freak', but I do love things in their proper place and organization. I love streamline and minimalism at it's best. I love modern furniture and nice storage bins in closets and neatly folded towels... I used my old Ikea DVD/CD shelving from the spare bedroom because I had hundreds of DVDs and CDs, being a bachelor at one time and DVDs and CDs are defunct, and put the DVD/CD tower rack in the laundry room to store neatly and nicely folded towels, wash cloths and hand towels... the assorted bright colors of them against the modern mat gray slim shelving unit looks great. The Vanity closet is full of faux leather boxes of red, brown, tan of assorted sizes and stores everything so that most of the items are not seen unless you go to the chosen bin. A few of the bins are open at the top, so you can see the commonly used items that we have to use on a daily, and look nice stored. I constantly have to organize and re-organize. The junk drawers are even nice and organized. The Vanity draws, I used old Cartier boxes that my Cartier note cards came turn them upside down and tape them to the inside of drawer, so that they don't move, but temporary so I can clean them out and change them if necessary so that they are mini bins to separate items, like toothpaste, hand creams, tweezers, etc.. You know, opening and closing the drawer, things shift, this way they don't shift much and only shift in their separate compartment. To keep stuff from cluttering the fridge, like papers, pictures, bills, calendars, Son's school info flyers, etc., I purchased (3) $12 mirrored medicine cabinets from Home Depot, and placed them on the wall in the side room with a cardboard sheet over the shelving, so when I open the mirror door, I can see the calendar, child's school schedule, lunch menu for the month, important and emergency telephone numbers receipts etc., and its out of the way, not falling off the fridge every time I open the fridge door, not junky looking and the mirrored wall I created acts as a full size clothing mirror... so we can see if we look okay on the way out the door. All this to say that my Wife doesn't see her ways as being wrong... She went off on me once for 'cleaning behind her'... I'll never do THAT again. lol. Is she a lot better than she used to be? Yes... and she still has a ways to go... I love her, so I will continue to do the things that makes me, me... I have to allow her to be her. I've learned that in any relationship... allow 3 things. For every one thing you don't like about your mate, there are at least 3 things they can't stand about you. No matter how awesome you think you are with what you do... that very thing probably makes them cringe. Now I look at it and say to myself ... "Let me Superman this moment" and I go to work solving the crime of grime ! I feel good, the place looks good, I've done good and all is right with the world. I live to see another day of fighting grime and my marriage is restored. You ever notice that every Super Hero has to fight the same fight with the same villain over and over ? If there is no arch enemy or antagonist... the Super Hero ain't that super anymore. It's not about the act of what he does or doesn't do... it's how you decide to feel about it. You have the power to chose how to feel about it. Use your power for good... not evil. lol
"J!m"