How do you think about receiving lingerie as an anniversary present? I know it is the thought that counts, but I received a lingerie set for our anniversary last night (worth something around $550 b/c I saw the tags) but I feel sort of bla about it because it feels more a present to himself than a gift to me. I feel bad saying this, but honestly for that amount of money, it would have felt much more special if he had given me a dress to wear to dinner or something else to wear like a small piece of jewelery. The lingerie is beautiful and fits me really well, but somehow this feels like a gift that should be given "just because" as a surprise, not as an anniversary present. (as an aside, thank god I did not end up buying lingerie to wear that night as a gift to him, or that would have turned out really awkward). What do you think?