What is the secret? I found my perfect bag yesterday as per TPF in San Fransisco. Card in hand ready to purchase. Of course when I asked for the bag to be shipped I was nicely told that I could purchase by phone but I needed to pick it up. I explained that I live out of the country but I have a second home in the states and it isn't near CA. The SA asked if I had a friend that could pick up my purchase. I don't think I know anyone in CA. I thought of a courier service then I said to myself "Gain control, you are insane." Is there something else I should have asked? Some magic greeting or phrase? I just discovered the site three days ago and you people have already infected me with the orange virus and I'm 5,000 miles away. lol!!!