I use a small shoulder bag or tiny handheld evening bag for parties, but have been intrigued by gorgeous clutches that look so glamorous. Lately, I've been thinking about getting a clutch and would love to hear from clutch owners about their bags... Do you prefer them to other types of evening bags? Why? Do you carry them with your fingers/with your hand, or under your armpit? (ooh just thought of this, if so, are you worried about pit stains when wearing sleeveless dresses? sorry about the question). My main worry is that it doesn't seem like it would be as secure to just clutch the clutch(pardon the pun , and even less secure under your armpit. (couldn't someone just slip it out and run?) -- this could be my paranoia talking . TIA!!