From all of your posts the past couple of days it sounds like you're really stressing over keeping it or not. Like I said before, I think the smaller beads would compliment it better. Thats the one I am getting and it had perfect balance. That said, I think the medium would compliment the VCA bracelet more than the small IF you wear it on a separate wrist. Then I think they would work nicely together. Some people are going to like wearing everything chunky since it is the trend these days, but I think the smaller one is timeless with the VCA.