Kroquet I feel your angst! I'm going off the board to vote:
E. Wait for the right black bag!
I think you should put a hold on all potential SO's and purchases until you have a chance to see the cabat IRL and decide if it's the right bag for you, then you'll know if it's worth a longer wait or if not you can feel better spending $2k+/- sooner on something else. If you settle for something now then find out later you love the cabat IRL you'll be no closer to getting one.
I've been eyeing the nero cabat as well but worry about the openness issues (and hadn't even considered the cost of additional pouches
) and how the shape looks on my frame - I need to see handle one IRL but only have the opportunity 1-2 times a year too! It's difficult, emotionally, to wait, but wait I must. Boo!
On the other hand, I do feel like I've already found the PERFECT black BV and that may negate my need for a cabat (I could go for a diff color but nero is so versatile it's stuck in my brain). I thought I would introduce her to you since you asked for other suggestions. I think
jburgh has one in cervo/gunmetal hardware in the reference library - this one is nappa/ottone hardware so you get the black/gold contrast, zip closure for security, and the option of satchel or shoulder carry with a removable strap. It's so wonderful I can't imagine being happier with a cabat so for me the cabat might just be a mental-pursuit, kwim? Anyway, I was absolutely committed to saving for this bag for a year, but fortunately she came sooner thanks to scary-Bay. Hopefully you find the perfect black bag FOR YOU and when you find it, it will be worth all waiting and saving,
no doubts!
Here's my no-name nero BV satchel, next to a large veneta for comparison although the comparison is making it look smaller than it is....