Hi:
The Elisha is definitely a great bag. The only way you're going to know if it's right for you is to try it. The one you looked at online - was it from a retailer that accepts returns?
It is a great bag, I agree. However, I think if you will like it depends on your thoughts on suede. If you generally like it, I think you should be okay. They are making a smooth black Elisha now too, in case you are worried about the suede.