Kelly Lovers - do you find yourself using the strap on your shoulder or across your shoulder messenger style? What size is best for this 28cm or 32cm? Any pics you can share? This is the deal...i LOVE my birkins but i need some more H additions that are hands free...already searching for my lindy but also thinking about the kelly since its so stunning and an absolute classic. What i like is also the fact that it can be worn with or without the strap. I tend to prefer the rigide look but not sure how this looks strapped across the body...is this totally tacky to wear the kelly this way? I was thinking it might actually be pretty cool and different:s Please help!