I'd like to get your opinion on this bag. It just arrived today, and I'm not sure I'm loving it. For one, it's quite heavy. I wasn't expecting that. However, it may just be due to the fact I'm used to my Bbags. Also, I didn't think it was this big. Does it look too big for me? Does it look like luggage? What I do like about it is it is very well made .... high quality. The leather handles are gorgeous! I'm not sure what to do. Please give me your honest opinions. Even in black is it still too much bling for everyday?