My DH and I have been trying to get pregnant for a little while now... I've always been irregular (why I went on the pill to begin with back in high school)... and I'm now almost 3 months w/out a period. So I went to my dr (I had seen a thread on here about PCOS... and it got me a little scared)... she mentioned that maybe she should do a test for PCOS, but didn't really think it was worth it. (HUH????? ) Because the treatement for PCOS was to go on the pill to regulate your periods and then go off it to become pregnant, which is what I'd done... so she didn't see any merit in giving me the test. I was floored and said, GIVE ME THE TEST--- I NEED TO KNOW! I mean come on? Am I alone in thinking that it is better to KNOW even if there isn't anything you can technically do about it yet? She said we had to try for a year unsucessfully before I could try fertility options (frustating!). Anyway, I got the test results back on Saturday in a letter in the mail. Talk about a slap in the face, since she had assured me if the tests were bad that she'd call and leave a message and if they were good they'd mail the results. She wrote that she couldn't get ahold of me or whatever and that was why she was MAILING the bad results. Then she writes that as we discussed there was nothing to do and to come back if we aren't pregnant after a year. I just feel so empty inside... I mean... first off, not great service by the Dr... and second off, what if we never get pregnant? What if ... I don't know... I better end this now I"m getting upset and am at work. (one side note since this is the PURSE forum... when my husband found out the results he was so suportive and we went to LV to get a new purse to help take my mind of matters... and cheer me up...) The reasoning was awful though... we'd been saving for a baby and it looks like that won't happen for a while if at all... so I could use the money for the purse. So in one sense I was happy but in another... devastated.