Sheer ignorance we can help. Willful misunderstanding, unfortunately, we can't.
And in this age of google, we don't see much sheer ignorance.
Sometimes, willful ignorance is belief-based. In fact, a lot of times. And we can't know how much that person may need that belief. They may need it more than they need facts, or truth.
So unless I am 100% sure that even attempting to put them through such a painful process would effect outcome, events set in motion long ago, I am not sure it would even be humane to try to wrest that belief from them, cast doubt on it, because it is their need, it gives them comfort, and no facts or truth I have to tell can replace that.
Funny you should say that, because today I learned some pretty cool things about you.
You took a big step of a very important journey, and went one better and were brave enough to share it, and I can promise you somebody is going to be Inspired to put out their own toe and take a step, too!
envyme, I stand in awe of your courage.
As someone who does not have that kind of courage, I can only ask you to trust me that I am not just talking out of my ass when I say this, the most terrible thing about what happened to you is how many other times and places it has happened,
and still is happening. This resource is, of course, woefully incomplete.
I hope that there are much better ones, though hate has become so commonplace that maybe we have just given up even trying to chronicle even one very narrowly defined manifestation of it.
http://www.genocidewatch.org/genocidetable2005.htm
The only chance of survival we have, that human beings have, is to stop it. I admit it's not a guarantee, nor even much of a chance. It is, however, what we've got. The single item on the menu.
The hardest thing any of us will ever do is also the best thing any of us could ever do, and that is to say, "It stops with me."