Long story short....my roomate and her SO argue ALL the damn time. She is a very cool girl and everyone adores her as a friend but when it comes down to her man she turns into a controlling, bossy, JEALOUS (#1 issue) gf. i cant even begin to think how many times he has stormed out on her saying if she cant change her ways, mainly the jealousy, its over cuz he cant live his life not ever feeling comfortable. she accuses him of checking out everyone-from the tv, movies, people around them, on his computer, anytime and any place. This guy is a doll. He totally respects her and i can see he is really hurting from her ways. she swears she knows he wouldnt cheat on her but she hates the fact that he comes into contact w/ a girl that has major cleavage and that he would stare. im w/them alot and he doesnt do this. then again i dont sit there and check what he's looking at every minute like she will. he has told her if he sees something its never cuz he wants it or desires it. NORMAL!!! everyone sees things and he's not a pervert! PLEASE help! i had to drag her to the dr. after one of their episodes one day and gave her anti-depressants. how can i help? he has tried more than anyone to help her see he loves only her and so have i. its really uncomfortable when we go out cuz i know whats on her mind the entire time.and god forbid he people watches! geez, she even hesitates to use the restroom in fear a hot babe will walk by and he will look at her ass! i love this girl to death but its the most uncomfy thing for everyone. my SO and I have even learned to take seperate cars when we go out in case she gets mad and wants to leave and we want to stay. what do you do? i want to help her so bad so she can be happy. it hurts me to see her sit there just wondering who her bf comes in contact w/when he's anywhere w/o her. she is 24 and very pretty and other wise, normal! plz help, i dont know when me, her bf, whoever are going to finally lose it once and for all.