j12: 33 or 38 MM?

I personally like the 33. I tried both on but the 38 just seemed to big for me...I have really tiny wrists. Maybe measure out circles of 33 and 38 mm and put them on your wrist to get an idea?
 
I also have the 33. I have small wrists and I would have felt the 38 was enormous, as it is the 33 is a fair bit bigger than my ladies datejust rolex which was the size I was used to wearing before I got the J12. I feel the 33 is perfect.
 
Thank you all so much for all the opinions. I am leaning towards the 33, however the 38 is very pretty but not sure how long it will be in style for!
I am told big watches are in now!! but who knows for how long when you are spednding that much money!!