I also have the 33. I have small wrists and I would have felt the 38 was enormous, as it is the 33 is a fair bit bigger than my ladies datejust rolex which was the size I was used to wearing before I got the J12. I feel the 33 is perfect.
Thank you all so much for all the opinions. I am leaning towards the 33, however the 38 is very pretty but not sure how long it will be in style for!
I am told big watches are in now!! but who knows for how long when you are spednding that much money!!