My company hired a new VP in April and ever since then a lot of changes have been made - countless firings (until him the company rarely fired anyone) and constant changes within his departments. It's been super stressful and has created a pretty bad atmosphere.
About three weeks ago more changes were made in my dept stressing people out again. The girl I work with said all week that she hopes I don't quit over it (a lot of people have) and that she needs me and every day she said thank you for coming to work. She just got moved to a new project so I know she doesn't want to have to worry about hiring and training someone new. Plus she kept saying how I'm doing a great job. I like the company so I had absolutely no intention of quitting and I told her that numerous times.
I've been there for just over a year and I'm the youngest in my whole area by at least 10 years. I know people have already decided that I will get pregnant soon because of my age (I'm 28) and they say that all the time to me when anything long term is mentioned. I am kind of TTC, but I don't see myself being pregnant any time soon. Regardless, that's none of their business.
I made a mistake a couple of weeks ago, nothing too major and it was related to a lack of training (it was done totally different at my old job and I didn't realise this company did it this way and no one was around for me to ask, they were all on vacation). Other than that nothing else has happened to make me think I'm doing a bad job.
So last week the same girl came to me and said we need to talk... We went for coffee and she said she doesn't think I have any desire to stay with the company. She said she knows my boyfriend is pretty well off and she thinks I don't have to work (not true!!!) plus I care about having a career) and she said my outfits lately show that I don't care... I'm wearing flats because I broke my toe!! She also said that when we go for drinks everyone finds it insulting that I only have one and leave..... Um, I DRIVE!! Most people in my dept drink and drive but I never will so one is my max. Lastly she said my work isn't good.... Last month my error rate was 0.15%!! Goal error rate is below 2%.
I don't know really why I'm posting I guess... I just feel stressed and need some advice on how to deal with this. I'm actually scared of going to work tomorrow
About three weeks ago more changes were made in my dept stressing people out again. The girl I work with said all week that she hopes I don't quit over it (a lot of people have) and that she needs me and every day she said thank you for coming to work. She just got moved to a new project so I know she doesn't want to have to worry about hiring and training someone new. Plus she kept saying how I'm doing a great job. I like the company so I had absolutely no intention of quitting and I told her that numerous times.
I've been there for just over a year and I'm the youngest in my whole area by at least 10 years. I know people have already decided that I will get pregnant soon because of my age (I'm 28) and they say that all the time to me when anything long term is mentioned. I am kind of TTC, but I don't see myself being pregnant any time soon. Regardless, that's none of their business.
I made a mistake a couple of weeks ago, nothing too major and it was related to a lack of training (it was done totally different at my old job and I didn't realise this company did it this way and no one was around for me to ask, they were all on vacation). Other than that nothing else has happened to make me think I'm doing a bad job.
So last week the same girl came to me and said we need to talk... We went for coffee and she said she doesn't think I have any desire to stay with the company. She said she knows my boyfriend is pretty well off and she thinks I don't have to work (not true!!!) plus I care about having a career) and she said my outfits lately show that I don't care... I'm wearing flats because I broke my toe!! She also said that when we go for drinks everyone finds it insulting that I only have one and leave..... Um, I DRIVE!! Most people in my dept drink and drive but I never will so one is my max. Lastly she said my work isn't good.... Last month my error rate was 0.15%!! Goal error rate is below 2%.
I don't know really why I'm posting I guess... I just feel stressed and need some advice on how to deal with this. I'm actually scared of going to work tomorrow