Ladies forgive the melancholy, but as I am sitting with the first moments of quiet in days I'm feeling a little blue. If I had to do a checklist I'd say that overall I have an amazing life: Family-great Career-rewarding Home-building dream house I never in a million years would have predicted that I'd be an orphan at 35:cry:. My mom died very suddenly 2 years ago-extremely traumatic-dad died 12 years ago and there are some days that I still can't believe it. I would have never predicted this for myself-I think of myself 15 years ago with my family alive and together and realize how little I appreciated how blessed i was. So I ask you..could you have predicted your future? Did your life turn out the way that you hoped and dreamed it would?