i feel bad about the situation, but am i wrong? is this too much to ask? well, i just won a pair of chanel flats on Apr1, yesterday. i contacted the seller immediately about my situation. i let her know that it would take me just a few days to come up with payment because the current cc i was using expired a few hours before her bidding ended and the one i was planning to replace it with is frozen and i wasn't aware of it until i tried paying. i asked her for just a couple of days to finish the transaction. i would still comply with paypal/eBay rules paying by the 7-day deadline considering she had no payment instructions listed.. no "expect payment in 3 days" or "send payment within 48 hours" on her auction. i told her all of this. she sent me the invoice saying if i didn't contact her today, she'd relist or sell to the next highest bidder. i just messaged her again re-explaining the whole situation since the previous msg i sent her was kind of unclear. we'll see how it turns out. my account is flawless as of yet, btw. 100% feedback and all sellers have noted my prompt and smooth transactions. i know i'm at fault because i haven't paid yet, but it has barely been a day since the auction ended and she's considering relisting the item. i really want the flats too. i've been looking for them in my size, but they are sold out everywhere! sigh. i know i'm sorry for the whole perdicament, but am i asking too much? am i being unreasonable?