I was able to snag a heloise from the NM/Bergdorf sale. I really do like her, but I'm wondering if she's too "distressed" looking. I know that the bag is supposed to have that look. But, what do ya'll think? The last picture is from BG. Also, do you have any recommendations for a conditioning and/or waterproofing lotion or spray? The care card recommended treating the bag. I have some coach lotion, do you think that will work? Honest opinons, please!!! Thanks!!