I pre-order this diorama in black onyx. It is in the micro-canage finish - which is kind of like a patent leather. Is this too flashy to be worn casually? Also, do you feel that this is too trendy? I want something that I will enjoy for years, should I just stick with a grained leather or perhaps if I'm really into classic look, a lady dior? What do you guys think? This will be my first dior purchase.