Is there a particular purse shape that best suits your body type? I'm short 5'1' but overweight. So I know that I'm supposed to go with small purses but I love big purses. With the small purses I feel so huge carrying them. I usually buy structured purses but right now I'm falling in love with hobos...is that a bad thing? Will I just look totally ridiculous with a bag that basically similar to my body structure?
These rules are funny, aren't they? Because I have heard (and believe) the exact opposite!
What I have heard, re shoulder bags, is that you should carry a bag that is in direct proportion to your size.
This is apparently because, unless the bag is enormous or very small, people tend to subconciously assume that the bag is an average size.
So, if you are bigger (in height and/or weight) you should carry a larger shoulder bag, so that you look smaller in comparison to it. If a larger person carries a small shoulder bag they look bigger than they are, when compared to the bag.
Conversely, if you are petite and/or thin, it is more flattering for you to carry a smaller bag. A large bag will overwhelm you and therefore, make you look smaller/thinner.
Following this rule, a petite, but overweight, woman will look best with a medium sized bag, which will look large on her, in comparison to her height and therefore, make her look slimmer, without being so large that it makes her look shorter.
Obviously, these rules assume that medium sized bags are in fashion.
When large bags are 'in' and people are used to seeing people carry them, you have to adjust the ideal size upwards; therefore, at the moment, you would look fine carrying a large bag; but probably still not so good with an enormous one.
I think SP is absolutely right about bags drawing attention to the part of the body that they are next to. Shoulder bags, like hobos, also add bulk to that area.
I've always thought that pear-shaped women with longer bodies, shorter legs and rounder hips, generally look best with bags with short straps that 'hit' at the bust, or waistline; to draw the eye upward and to not add bulk at the hips.
Whereas, women with big/busts and/or upper arms, shorter bodies, longer legs and less full/round hips, generally look best with low slung bags that rest against their hips; to elongate the body and to not add bulk at the bustline.
I fall into the latter category and love my low slung hobos.