Help...I need advice. I have owned two Birkins...a 30cm Black Clemence w/Palladium HW and a 35cm Chocolate Togo w/Gold HW. Both have been sold because I felt the 30cm was too small for me and the 35cm was too large and heavy. Ok...the dilemma is that I was at Target today and saw someone dressed casually carrying a 35cm Ebene w/Palladium HW Birkin!! It looked like Epsom.:s I really loved it!! I understand from previous posts that Epsom is not a favoriteush:, but to my eyes I really loved the way the Birkin held it's structure and the matte finish it had. Do you think I should buy another 35cm Birkin in the future or forget it and if I do should it be in Epsom or some other leather.