Is my ring very fragile?

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Call me Kiki
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Hello Lovelies-
My dh gave me a pearl ring for Christmas. I have been wanting one for the longest time as it is my twins' birthstone. So I've been wearing it on my right hand, and I keep bumping it on everything. It's big and sticks up alot and I'm right handed and it keeps touching everything. The sink, the faucets, food, etc. Are pearls too delicate for normal wear and tear? Should I save it for special occassions when I won't be doing so much with my hands? I don't have a very formal lifestyle and hope it doesn't have to sit lonely in my drawer. Thanks!!
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I am a June baby too. I find pearls to be fragile. I had a pearl RHR and the pearl fell out twice, I ended up returning it. I was so ****ed. I think it was only glued in?

Yours is beautiful.
 
Yes. They scratch easily. Not a good stone for everyday. Lovely though, congratulations on your thoughtful DH's selection!
Thanks, I love it so much, I don't want to mess it up!
I had a pearl RHR and the pearl fell out twice,
Wow that's awful! I will be super careful when I have it on. I hope you got yourself something else fabulous to make up for it.
 
Thanks, I love it so much, I don't want to mess it up!

Wow that's awful! I will be super careful when I have it on. I hope you got yourself something else fabulous to make up for it.

It is lovely but be careful. I had a similar experience with a pearl ring my husband had made. The pearl popped off several times. The ring was a stunner but I spent more time running it to the jewelers because I loved it and wanted to wear it. I learned I am ok with pearl studs and necklaces.

Yours is gorgeous! Congrats!
 
your ring is beautiful! congratulations on your june twins too.

pearls are not for every-day wear. you also have to be careful about getting lotion or soap or makeup or hairspray on them as it will damage the nacre (the glossy "finish"). you should wipe your pearls clean with a soft damp cloth after each time you wear them. pearls are also porous, so they need to be cleaned from time to time. DO NOT USE JEWELRY CLEANER though. just soak them in water with a teeeeeeeeny TINY little bit of a MILD soap (for example, I get my fingertips a little soapy with natural oatmeal soap & then put them in the water so the suds get into the water) for about 15 minutes & gently dry them with a soft cloth.

here are some good tips:
http://www.pearloasis.com/care.html
http://jewelry.about.com/cs/pearls/a/cleaning_pearls.htm
 
Yes, pearl is quite fragile. I wear my pearl ring very often and has tiny nicks and scratches, but they don't bother me or ruins the luster. If you love it, don't hold back and wear it as often as you like.....it's a sign that you really enjoy your ring.
 
Def not for everyday wear! This is not the ring to wear if it's going to be knocking into anything or coming into contact with any liquids. Unless you want to e replacing the pearl fairly soon :(
 
your ring is beautiful! congratulations on your june twins too.

pearls are not for every-day wear. you also have to be careful about getting lotion or soap or makeup or hairspray on them as it will damage the nacre (the glossy "finish"). you should wipe your pearls clean with a soft damp cloth after each time you wear them. pearls are also porous, so they need to be cleaned from time to time. DO NOT USE JEWELRY CLEANER though. just soak them in water with a teeeeeeeeny TINY little bit of a MILD soap (for example, I get my fingertips a little soapy with natural oatmeal soap & then put them in the water so the suds get into the water) for about 15 minutes & gently dry them with a soft cloth.

here are some good tips:
http://www.pearloasis.com/care.html
http://jewelry.about.com/cs/pearls/a/cleaning_pearls.htm
Thank you Frick! You know so much about jewels. My pearl studs could definitely use a bath, I will try this tmro. And thank you about the twins, they're getting old now, 12 yrs hehe. Your big white South Sea ring with the blue diamonds is what turned me on to BIG pearls. I showed the photo to my dh and said, "look, like this". He said "wow!" That's a very strong reaction for him. I was hoping for gorgeous prongs like yours, but we haven't seen anything at all like that. Your ring is just fabulous!
 
Thank you Frick! You know so much about jewels. My pearl studs could definitely use a bath, I will try this tmro. And thank you about the twins, they're getting old now, 12 yrs hehe. Your big white South Sea ring with the blue diamonds is what turned me on to BIG pearls. I showed the photo to my dh and said, "look, like this". He said "wow!" That's a very strong reaction for him. I was hoping for gorgeous prongs like yours, but we haven't seen anything at all like that. Your ring is just fabulous!

how sweet of you to say! so glad I can help encourage your DH to get you a bauble that you deserve :hugs:

I have twin nieces who are about 7.5. they're the love of my life. but I know what a difficult job you had as a twin mommy...I admire you.

I'm really REALLY scared that something I said will cause you to do something that will damage your pearl. soooooooooo please do the unthinkable & go buy some pearl cleaner. I could never forgive myself if something happened to your pearl.

OK, OK...I hate wasting money, so I googled a cleaner recipe. here ya go. but I'm begging you to please be careful & dilute ANYTHING with purified water when cleaning your pearl just to be on the safe side (even more than the recipe says or even store-bought cleaner). [anything drying is the enemy of a pearl, so I would use super gentle baby shampoo with no scent or any other harsh chemicals]
http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/beauty/fashion/speed-clean-jewelry
Freshen your pearls: Because they’re so porous, pearls can easily lose their luster. Whether real, cultured, or faux, they must be cleaned with care. First lay the strand on a soft cloth. Dip a clean, small makeup brush into a mixture of warm water and a little shampoo, and go over each pearl. To finish, rinse the pearls with a clean, well-wrung damp cloth. Let the strand dry flat to prevent the string from stretching. This no-soak treatment is also good for turquoise, another porous stone.

I sorta "created" that ring. I bought the setting as a semi-mount (no center stone, but the side stones were there). it was designed for a gemstone (I had them remove the stone), so I had my jeweler friend add a pin in the middle to hold the pearl underneath. the prongs are actually only decorative...they don't hold the pearl at all & don't really even touch it. the pearl is glued to the pin (as the vast majority of pearls are set...including your ring).

what color is that pearl? in your pic it looks chocolate. if it is, I'm super jealous. I've been dreaming about a beautiful chocolate pearl in RG.
 
OK, OK...I hate wasting money, so I googled a cleaner recipe
Lol I will be VERY careful, I hate buying chemicals to clean with, there's always something gentler in the house that will do the job. I'm going to do my studs, they have makeup, shampoo, conditioner, hairspray and perfume on them. And a few scratches. I doubt anything I do could make them worse.
The pearl in the ring is a gray Tahitian. It's very soft and glowy, kind of creamy, if that makes sense? I never really looked closely at pearls before, so much gorgeous variety! I hope you find your chocolate one quickly.
 
Lol I will be VERY careful, I hate buying chemicals to clean with, there's always something gentler in the house that will do the job. I'm going to do my studs, they have makeup, shampoo, conditioner, hairspray and perfume on them. And a few scratches. I doubt anything I do could make them worse.
The pearl in the ring is a gray Tahitian. It's very soft and glowy, kind of creamy, if that makes sense? I never really looked closely at pearls before, so much gorgeous variety! I hope you find your chocolate one quickly.

thank you...be careful with your very precious gems.

yes, makes perfect sense. I have 2 gray tahitian rings, but mine don't have the creamy tones. yours is just gorgeous! I have to say I just love your color. I love that setting too. your DH did a very good job. did you help him? :giggles:

with me & pearls, it's never a quick decision. I wait for the perfect one to find me. I'm happy to wait.
 
That is a gorgeous ring - I am a june baby too, so I love it. I echo all the sentiments here, I had a beautiful pearl ring crack in half and break my heart! So careful.
 
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