I hope this doesn't sound weird
What I want and what my future fiance wants to get for an e-ring is different.
If I get a diamond ring, I want a genuine antique diamond ring. I find that the new "chunky" cut diamonds don't look like the early cut stones I fell in love with.
My bf is against using a "used"(and maybe cursed, lol and likely very yellow) diamond for an engagement ring. He also does not like the idea of me having another ring on my hand other than the e-ring he gets and our wedding band. He is quite strong about his opinion on this.
I told him since it is supposed to be a gift and it is supposed to symbolize our love & commitment, I will be glad with any diamond ring he gives.
And he is not happy about this. Because he wants the e-ring to be perfect and he wants me to fall in love with it.
I don't know what to do???
Am I supposed to convince him to buy me an antique ring?
Or, am I supposed to tell him I reaaaaaally love another diamond shape he also likes????
If I just tell him I would just accept his heart & good intentions but no e-ring,
or ask to give me a simple diamond band, and I get the ring I love myself, is it rude?
I don't intend to tell people around me it is an engagement ring.
It will just be a ring I bought for myself.
If the design matters - the design I love looks like an e-ring but I guess I could choose a different setting.
Does it make a difference if I buy it before we get engaged or after?
It just sounds really silly to me that I can only have one ring and one ring only
I don't want to hurt my bf's feelings...
What do you think should I do?
What I want and what my future fiance wants to get for an e-ring is different.
If I get a diamond ring, I want a genuine antique diamond ring. I find that the new "chunky" cut diamonds don't look like the early cut stones I fell in love with.
My bf is against using a "used"(and maybe cursed, lol and likely very yellow) diamond for an engagement ring. He also does not like the idea of me having another ring on my hand other than the e-ring he gets and our wedding band. He is quite strong about his opinion on this.
I told him since it is supposed to be a gift and it is supposed to symbolize our love & commitment, I will be glad with any diamond ring he gives.
And he is not happy about this. Because he wants the e-ring to be perfect and he wants me to fall in love with it.
I don't know what to do???
Am I supposed to convince him to buy me an antique ring?
Or, am I supposed to tell him I reaaaaaally love another diamond shape he also likes????
If I just tell him I would just accept his heart & good intentions but no e-ring,
or ask to give me a simple diamond band, and I get the ring I love myself, is it rude?
I don't intend to tell people around me it is an engagement ring.
It will just be a ring I bought for myself.
If the design matters - the design I love looks like an e-ring but I guess I could choose a different setting.
Does it make a difference if I buy it before we get engaged or after?
It just sounds really silly to me that I can only have one ring and one ring only
I don't want to hurt my bf's feelings...
What do you think should I do?