just wondering whether it is possible for opposite sex to be very good friends (platonic?) without feeling love towards each other? **curious I always thought it is not possible as all the guys I met in the past were nice to me because they want to get closer. But recently, this belief seems to be swayed. I have a very good male friend who treats me so well and the 'theory' I hold appears to be invalid. what do you ladies think? is it ever possible to have such a relationship?