Yes, I'm often regarded as 'girly', or traditionally feminine in my interests and looks. I have not always identified as such and I've had a lot of challenges growing up and understanding what being 'female' meant. I always felt uncomfortable being called a 'young woman' as a teenaged girl, that I'd make "a good mother someday", and I wasn't even sure if I wanted to be 'woman' at some point. I don't take 'girly' personally because I know I'm more than just that. Going off a tangent, I also don't appreciate guys trying to convince me that I'm so feminine, that I'm not like other girls. If I'm not on equal footing and you put other women down, I'm not interested. It only gives me warning flags.
At the end of the day, if you like to be called 'girly', there's nothing wrong with that. There's no such thing as too girly either. Everyone expresses themselves in different ways. You just gotta find yourself, things that you already possess and that you are proud of.
I know this account has it down that it's pretty old. My teen self created this account (probably for browsing purposes) but I'm just a couple of months older than you are. Not orthodox Jewish but I was also denied the opportunity to wear makeup and have my ears pierced. My decisions were met with much resistance from my father at first, but then I think he eventually let it be. By piercings, I just mean the standard one-on-each-lobe. I don't have anything more than that. He helped me dye my hair pink when I was 19, so I think it's safe to say that he eventually came to terms with it.
And yes, you could have totally been more responsible with your trust, but money will come and go, the lessons you learn are forever.