I am a people pleaser, and it drives me nuts! For example...I have a sister who gives my parents lots of trouble (even though she is in her early 20s), and I am always trying to be the perfect daughter (even at 27 years old), so I won't add more stress to their lives. If someone looks at me cross-eyed, I assume that I did something wrong. Tonight a friend of mine was supposed to meet up with me and some other friends. I had already had my one drink and for me, that is the limit because I have a very low alcohol tolerance, and me and my friends were all tired. Plus, we were getting massive thunderstorms. Because I never heard back from the friend who was supposed to meet up with us, I left and drove home. I live 30 minutes away from everyone else. When I got home, that my friend finally called and wanted to know where to meet us. I told her that I had enough to drink (even though it was early) and was already home and didn't want to drive all the way back. She got all huffy and annoyed. Of course, I cannot stop thinking about it and feeling awful that someone is mad at me. I had an ex-bf who was verbally abusive and when he would get angry with me I would take the blame even when it wasn't my fault- just so he wouldn't be mad at me anymore. There are so many other examples... I have such issues with people being angry with me of disappointed in me. When I was younger this manifested itself in an eating disorder. Now I just get anxiety. Some people might think I am nuts, but it seriously affects me. Does anyone else relate at all?