I'm with everybody else: As good as it sounds, it's probably not such a great idea. I've actually got a little bit of experience in this department, so I will share my story.
From the time I was 13 until now (I'm 21) I spoke to a man online, who (for the first few years) I didn't know too much about and he didn't know much about me either. We never shared with eachother how old we were, we just had a nice time talking to eachother about random things. When I turned 18, I made a comment about my birthday party - and he was very surprised to learn that I was so young. I asked him how old he was, and he told me he was 40...one year younger than my mother..at the time. This didn't really bother me, and we continued talking and sharing things about eachother. Eventually, we exchanged pictures - and I was immediatelyattracted to him. He was a very distinguished man, reminding me of a not-yet-gray Richard Gere (I think he's delicious!!). Our online-relationship developed a little bit more and we remained great friends who also spoke on the phone occasionally.
After I had turned 19, he told me he would be in Washington DC on business and if I would like to meet with him (I was living in Annapolis, MD at the time) and I agreed. I had met a number of people online before this, so I was pretty comfortable with the idea and knew what to do in regards to safety. The two of us met at Tysons II (Shopping mall in Tysons Corner, va) and immediately clicked. We spent the whole day together and went out to dinner that night, and then later to a club. Over all, we had a great time! After that night, we met every night for the 2 weeks he was in Washington DC. After the first 5 days, things developed somewhat quickly and we began sharing his hotel room in the Ritz Carlton attached to the Tysons Mall.
We began to talk about having a relationship together and how things would work. He was divorced, no children, and a real estate agent in Virginia Beach...I was 19, in college, no children. When he left, things were up in the air for the both of us - and when he was back home I couldn't reach him. He was very busy and I became very needy and clingy. I knew right then that if I couldn't reach him, I couldn't be with him. 2 weeks after my episode, things slowed down for him but it was already over for me.
Anyway. If you can see now that your lives are headed in two different directions and you both have different priorities, I wouldn't really go much further than casually dating with this...
From the time I was 13 until now (I'm 21) I spoke to a man online, who (for the first few years) I didn't know too much about and he didn't know much about me either. We never shared with eachother how old we were, we just had a nice time talking to eachother about random things. When I turned 18, I made a comment about my birthday party - and he was very surprised to learn that I was so young. I asked him how old he was, and he told me he was 40...one year younger than my mother..at the time. This didn't really bother me, and we continued talking and sharing things about eachother. Eventually, we exchanged pictures - and I was immediatelyattracted to him. He was a very distinguished man, reminding me of a not-yet-gray Richard Gere (I think he's delicious!!). Our online-relationship developed a little bit more and we remained great friends who also spoke on the phone occasionally.
After I had turned 19, he told me he would be in Washington DC on business and if I would like to meet with him (I was living in Annapolis, MD at the time) and I agreed. I had met a number of people online before this, so I was pretty comfortable with the idea and knew what to do in regards to safety. The two of us met at Tysons II (Shopping mall in Tysons Corner, va) and immediately clicked. We spent the whole day together and went out to dinner that night, and then later to a club. Over all, we had a great time! After that night, we met every night for the 2 weeks he was in Washington DC. After the first 5 days, things developed somewhat quickly and we began sharing his hotel room in the Ritz Carlton attached to the Tysons Mall.
We began to talk about having a relationship together and how things would work. He was divorced, no children, and a real estate agent in Virginia Beach...I was 19, in college, no children. When he left, things were up in the air for the both of us - and when he was back home I couldn't reach him. He was very busy and I became very needy and clingy. I knew right then that if I couldn't reach him, I couldn't be with him. 2 weeks after my episode, things slowed down for him but it was already over for me.
Anyway. If you can see now that your lives are headed in two different directions and you both have different priorities, I wouldn't really go much further than casually dating with this...