My In-laws hate me, they have gone out of their way to be mean to me in the past so much so that DH and I have stayed away from pretty much all family gatherings. We went to his cousins Christmas Party last year to see if they would have a better attitude and of course same old, same old so now were back to not attending again. We bought our first home back in the winter and are planning a housewarming for next month, do you think its wrong if I don't send his sisters invites but invite his cousins who havent caused us any problems? I really don't want them around smiling in my face being phony when really they aren't happy for us and only coming to see what we have in our house. What would you ladies do, send invites to all? Or go with your gutt and keep the troublemakers away?