Today, I bought the MK large Fulton satchel in black as seen here: MK website But now I'm having second thoughts whether or not to keep it. Couple of my concerns: Does it age me/look dowdy and make me look more "serious/uptight"? If worn over the shoulder with the chain link, it looks bulky but still passable. But definitely doesn't look good worn cross-body. It looks better with the straps disconnected and carried as a satchel. But I don't have any satchels because I don't think I'm a satchel kind of gal since I'm always on the go as a uni student. But I was initially drawn to the bag because the leather was so soft and the color is black, goes with any outfit. What are your opinions: keep or return and why? Thanks in advance!