i have the neverfull gm for overnights, when i need a big bag, etc. and i really love it- i like that it can change shape and it's come in pretty handy. (also it balances me out since i am so big right now!) i have the palermo gm for when i have the 2 children, so i can be hands free and so i have enough room to carry stuff. i need to exchange the palermo, but should i return it? both bags are pretty versatile bags, but do i need two large bags? sorry to bug you all with this... any opinions would be appreciated!