i put my son to bed--he is 3---and thought he went to sleep....i heard some noise upstairs and went up to find that he had gotten max and coco's ashes off the shelf...he opened max's ashes and spilled them all over the carpet in my room...then he must have poured some water on them......i had no choice but to vaccum....i am in tears and feel so terrible....i cannot believe it....coco was fine....i am so sad and now feel alot of guilt....i am beside myself....