Hi everybody, I need some advice on how to confront my Uncle in this situation. I'm not sure if I've written about it on here before, but just in case I haven't, I'll give a brief synopsis. I babysit my little cousin (she's 3) for my aunt and uncle when they're at work. My aunt typically works from 2-8pm and my uncle usually works from 4am - 6pm (he drives a truck). My cousin goes to kindergarten (Day care) from 7:30am-12:30pm. I pick her up from kindergarten everyday and take care of her until around 8:45pm when her mother gets home. My uncle gets home at around 6:30, but he's got his "stuff" to do at home, so he leaves my cousin here until my Aunt gets off of work. Currently, I don't work or go to school - so there is no great conflict in schedules - but it does make it a little inconvienient for me if I want to go shopping one day and they won't allow her to go with me. So...He's had vacation all this week, and every day my cousin has been over here after Kindergarten. He put her in kindergarten every morning, and I would go and pick her up at 12:30. He was at home during this time, but claimed that he had "things" to do (ie. catching up on sleep) and that he wouldn't be able to get her until later that evening. Well, later that evening ends up being 15 minutes before his wife gets home from work so that she thinks that he's been taking care of her all day. I don't really dare say anything to her, because I don't want to cause a problem between those two...But it's really starting to bother me. It doesn't bother me that I watch her when they're at work. I understand that childcare is expensive...but what really bugs me is that when he has VACATION - I'm still babysitting!!! He doesn't want me driving anywhere with her, which drives me COMPLETELY insane, since I bought a carseat for her and that means I basically have to stay in this itty bitty town. How would you all suggest I go about saying something?