I'm so sad.

It's dissapointing but I think it's great that you were able to deal with an honest seller. Black firsts pop up fairly often so I'm shure you will find what you're looking for.
 
Well black is a permanent colour so I guarantee youl'll track down a good one soon!

I can totally relate! I had quite a bumpy start to acquiring my first dream bag, a Bubblegum Pink City. But now that I have a pristine bag, it has wiped all the unpleasantness away! She probably should have sent you pictures for you to decide whether you wanted it, but on the other hand it is better than her being an unscrupulous seller. Your dream bag is out there waiting for you, and you will be able to forget all this once you have it! Hugs....Deana