I want to get a shawl before the price increase on November 1st. I've narrowed my choices down to 2 colors: gold/silver or black. Both on monogram pattern. What should I get? I don't wear shawls on a regular basis (I have a toddler ...I need my hands free all the time) and I was thinking about getting the shawl for a nice evening occasions once in a blue moon (therefore I like the gold/silver). But then the black is so versatile that it can probably go casual or formal; but then it's not as "glamorous" as the gold/silver. And obviously I cannot wear the gold/silver on casual occasions because it's too "flashy" for daily use. Dilemma dilemma. Help!