Hi ladies, I need some advice on getting a black purse that I can use daily that can transition from day to night. There are two purses right now that I'm eyeing... one on eBay and the other at NM. The one on eBay is the ultimate soft size large in black and the other is the sharpey flap. my budget is definitely below $2000 as my SO is offering to buy me either one for xmas. I literally baby all my bags, but I'm still worried that the lamb skin ultimate soft is too delicate for daily use... is this a legit worry? I'm leaning more towards the ultimate soft as I think it's more "me", but since the flap is made of calf skin, it would be more durable, wouldn't it? Any advice is greatly appreciate it! THANKS!