Hello Everyone....
Tonight I spoke to a friend who lost someone very close to her...despite her grief we spoke about some good moments that they shared. Their shared birthday was approaching on March 28th and they spend it together every year ritually cutting their cake. She remembered that he purchased a blazer for this years celebration and had it tailored to fit perfectly....it's hanging in his closet now never to be worn.
After getting off the phone with her my mind still can't rest. Life is very short and we never know when our last day will come. How many times do we run out the door not caring how we look ? How many times do we look whistfully at that special item in our closet and save it for a special occasion? This reminds me of a chain e-mail that went around about a widower who lost his wife and found expensive lingerie that she was always saving for a special occasion. I grew up in a very frugal family and as a result I always save things for special events afraid of messing them up....I have a ridiculous amount of shoes and i never wear all of them enough. I think a re-evaluation of behavior is in order.
So...here's my question for you : If you knew your days were numbered would it change how you put yourself together before walking out the door? Would you wear your favorite items more?
Tonight I spoke to a friend who lost someone very close to her...despite her grief we spoke about some good moments that they shared. Their shared birthday was approaching on March 28th and they spend it together every year ritually cutting their cake. She remembered that he purchased a blazer for this years celebration and had it tailored to fit perfectly....it's hanging in his closet now never to be worn.
After getting off the phone with her my mind still can't rest. Life is very short and we never know when our last day will come. How many times do we run out the door not caring how we look ? How many times do we look whistfully at that special item in our closet and save it for a special occasion? This reminds me of a chain e-mail that went around about a widower who lost his wife and found expensive lingerie that she was always saving for a special occasion. I grew up in a very frugal family and as a result I always save things for special events afraid of messing them up....I have a ridiculous amount of shoes and i never wear all of them enough. I think a re-evaluation of behavior is in order.
So...here's my question for you : If you knew your days were numbered would it change how you put yourself together before walking out the door? Would you wear your favorite items more?
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