A friend sent this to me and I would like to share it...
BTW: It can be about woman also
BTW: It can be about woman also
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
-If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
-If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
-Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
-Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
-Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
-Slower is better!
-Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy!
-If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
-then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
-Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
-Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
-The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
-Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
-He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
-Why would he treat you any differently?
-Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
-Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
-If something bothers you, speak up.
-Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
-You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
-Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
-He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
-Never let a man define who you are.
-Never borrow someone else's man.
-Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
-A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
-All men are NOT dogs.
-You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
-You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
-You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
-Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
-Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
-Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
-Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
-Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
-They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT...
-If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
-Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
-Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
-Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
-Slower is better!
-Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy!
-If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
-then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
-Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
-Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
-The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
-Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
-He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
-Why would he treat you any differently?
-Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
-Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
-If something bothers you, speak up.
-Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
-You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
-Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
-He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
-Never let a man define who you are.
-Never borrow someone else's man.
-Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
-A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
-All men are NOT dogs.
-You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
-You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
-You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
-Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
-Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
-Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
-Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
-Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
-They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT...
