So I won this pair of frye's on eBay and the auction stated "they are gently worn". Well I got them and first of all the seller sent them in one of those priority shoe boxes, so she folded them over in shipping - they were not laid flat. Then I open them up and put them on and IMO, they are more than GENTLY WORN. First they are pretty scratched up and one shoe top is a darker color than the other.......I have no idea what she did........it's almost as if one had gotten wet or something and ruined it cuz they are supposed to be suede and well suede is soft/fuzzy but the darker shoe is not soft at all........it's almost just smooth like leather would be. so what do you think........are these pretty banged up IYO or just gently worn?? Also for those who own these, do they look like this after a few wears..........just trying to figure out if this is normal wear or not. And since she didn't mention the tops of the shoes were different colors, I wouldn't have bid on them or paid as much as i did. What should I do??