I am really upset about this. I wear my black togo Trim 31 with gold almost daily and I do own a black clemence Birkin 30 with palladium and other Hermes bags. Anyway, I was in the Hermes area of Neiman Marcus in Troy, MI and the SA/manager said "hi" to me and then all of a sudden a woman with her hubby and her black clemence 35 Birkin with gold hardware came into the deparment and the SA said "Oh I love your bag!!" - I am so upset because I was carrying my black Trim and she said nothing like that to me. I have carried other Hermes bags near her, including my black clemence 30cm Birkin, and she never said "boo". Do I have to carry a 35cm Birkin to be noticed? I think I need the largest Birkin made and hit her with it! Also, while having lunch there today I noticed another woman with her 35 black Birkin with gold hardware and it bothered me...I don't know why because I have bags. Maybe I need to buy a black 35 with gold hardware? I'm really confused and upset and nervous. I think a 35 Birkin really says "hello"...do you agree? I have always been incognito with my bags and I think the Birkin thing is driving me crazy!!