OMG thank you so much for these 2 stories, and props to you and your cousin for acting intelligently and on your feet in the situations. Not to be dramatic, but you probably ended up saving your own lives.
What scares me about these stories is that both males (and the female) OFFERED something first. You know they wouldn't do this if they weren't positive they'd be getting it back shortly, or that they didn't have it at all ($500? a new tire in a "friend's shop"?) Their intent was probably very, very bad, not JUST to rob you. I'm so thankful that neither of you fell victim to anything
This is a personal story, but I want people to read it as well. Last summer, I was in Spain with a group of students from my college. We were walking in Madrid and an American man ran up to us FRANTICALLY talking- out of breath, very dirty, clothing all dirty and frumpy- he looked like he had just been in a car accident or out in the wilderness for a week. He said he was backpacking with his friends through Europe and that somehow, they had gotten split up. He had no money, no passport, nada on him. He asked us to give him a fixed amount of money (maybe 50 Euros? don't remember) so he could walk to the Embassy in Madrid and pay for something to do with his passport, which he no longer had. I think he wanted them to contact his home in the USA and wire over money or something. He also said he had a car at one point that had crashed, and he was concerned about getting in trouble for not returning a rented car, and would be arrested then basically screwed forever. He made his story seem like there had been so many horrors go on and that there was NO ANSWER for his plight. As if the least WE could do, as fellow Americans, was help him out in a foreign country, like WE were the only answer (lol... 4 18-21 yr old girls... sure). We ended up giving him like 5 Euros (8ish USD at the time) and he got pretty angry at us for not giving him the amount he wanted "Don't you understand what I'm telling you?!? I'm LOST here with NOTHING! I need HELP!" pulling his hair, making a scene (and the Spaniards are walkign by thinking... damn crazy Americans coming here..j/k). We eventually got to "We're sorry for you, I hope it turns out okay, just head towards the Embassy, they will be able to help you better than us."
I have heard of this type of a scam before. It seems just for $$, no other ulterior motive like in the other 2 stories. However, we, as a dead-giveaway as American girls in a foreign city, were an easy target, even for another "fellow American." Part of me felt sorry for him ("Who knows, maybe it's true? Maybe he needs help? Maybe even if he made it up, he's a pathological liar and needs to see a therapist and can't afford it?") I think of all crazy reasons why people need to help each other. But the bottom line is - there are people who try to take advantage of others and some who ARE OUT to HURT you.