As some of you may know I have some back problems. The problems in my back cause pain in my neck and head. About a month ago I sold quite a few things on eBay as I just couldn't bare staring at them in the closet and not being able to use them. I have been feeling 100% until yesterday when I returned home from the outlet mall. I was carrying my medium ergo belted tote and was in the Coach Outlet and some woman spotted it and tried to grab it thinking it was for SALE. I threw my bag over my shoulder ... and that was it. Old habits die hard I guess. Anyway, I am back in pain again. I returned my two outlet purchases and I am debating about returning my Heritage XL Satchel. I can't bear the thought of getting rid of my Belted Ergo Tote or Med Signature Carly so I tucked them away. Hubby keeps telling me to be patient and not push it and I will eventurly be able to use them. Does anyone have any suggestions for something that is REALLY LIGHT that I can carry in hand or over my arm that is not too big. I love signature so I am considering the Ergo Signature Tote the new ones I think will have patent on the sides.