Hello all TPF members! for the past weeks i've been on here almost everyday! im new ...so far im lovin it! I must say...everyone on here is lookin good with their bBag(S) So i've been wanting one for a long time now. I can't take it anymore!! I MUST HAVE ONE SOON. i know....im starting to go crazy...is it normal??? I spend more time reading about this bag on here more than spending time with my own bf! So here is the problem. I can't decide which one to buy. First or city? Im in college and i want to carry this purse as my bag. NOT for books but just for notebooks and snacks (to eat in boring classes). I have all the measurements for both bags but worrying that the small might not be big enough and if it fits, it wont make the beautiful drape that the bbags are famous for. Im 5'4 and 93lbs. I want a big bag but not too big where im swimming in it. Im afraid that the city is too big for me (im like a stick, flat like a wall). i tried going to the thread where everyone posted their pix w/ the bag and telling how tall they are. Instead of helping me, they confused me more! CUZ EVERYONE LOOKED SO GOOOOOOD IN THEIRS! I like the black one but i have a lot of black bags. should i go for the dark brown? which color is the darkest brown? I would go to the store to look at them and try them on except the closest place that has the Bbags is a state away! I have to order mine. and i've never seen one in real life. thats why im scarrrred to be disappointed. Thats the worse feeling. LAdies do u agree? wanting a bag, waiting for it to come home, then finding out its not what u wanted!!!! Thanks for reading my long post. Like i said, im new. hopefully i posted this in the rite place! sorry if i didn't.