I have a little longer than shoulder length hair - a few layers. BUT, my hair is so frizzy unless I use my Chi flat iron. I am totally damaging my hair. I use the Chi spray before I use my iron too. My hair has some natural curl to it, so if I add a little moouse/gel when it's wet and let it air dry - it has a bit of a curl to it. But not cute curl. Frizz curl. I'm contemplating a perm with BIG rods. I just don't know what else to do. My other choice is to do like I did before and get it cut shorter so there isn't as much hair to frizz out. I just like being able to wear my ponytails!!! What do you suggest? I have always hated my hair. I tried to darken it at home last night (mistake) and now some parts look REALLY dark, and other parts look a bit lighter. I guess a try to my hair guy is in order.