ok so here is my story , it might be a bit long , but i am very pissed over this. i started a new job in january , in talking I had mentioned that I was looking to buy a house in NJ. Well I was working w/ a realter that was no good , so a female co-worker suggested that I talk to her realtor Kerry. Well , I emaiked Kerry but she was not able to help me b/c it was out of her region. She recommended someone to me by the name of Mark. Mark turned out to be awesome!!! So anyways we placed a bid on a house and last night was the night I would find out if I won the bid or not. So, turns out I did .. ( so excited btw , it's our first house!! ) . So I came in this morning , and she says " congratulations" to me before I even say Good morning. Now my first issue w/ this is :What is she having her friend Kerry look in the system to spy on me or something , is she that nosey?? My other isssue is that I liked this co-worker until yesterday afternoon when I was on the phone w/ my girlfriend and husband. I was in between calls, and at the time I was talking to my husband about financial stuff and didn't want anybody to hear me , so I started talking to him in spanish, since it was a personal matter. While I'm talking to him ... she starts screaming " Speaking in fu**ing english , it f'ing urkes me ". Now, I am usually a person that would turn around and say " go to hell, you dont want to hear me , don't listen". But since I'm new their and I was really in a deep conversation , I just rolled my eyes at her and ignored her for the rest of the day. Then I come in this morning , and she knows I bought a house... I'm really bothered. I feel like she knows my financial info , and do not like that she had her friend researching me!! I am waiting for a call from Mark , my agent .. as soon as he calls I'm aksing him if Kerry called him . Can you belive this. I was floored yesterday , now this !!