Thanks everyone for their responses and advice! I really, really appreciate the help.
At the moment I have not yet received a reply from the seller.
I know its partial carelessness on my part for buying from a low fb seller, but if it's any excuse, I've never seen this bag listed before this one so I jumped at the opportunity.
I was wondering though, does anyone know for certain if I'm able to get the "Import Charges" of $88 back from UPS ,(what it was shipped through), even though it was marked as a "gift"?
In the meantime I'm going to take pictures like you all suggested, and give her 24 hours to respond before I open a dispute through paypal & ebay.