Mac - I got the large tote. I am 5'6, so it looks fine on me. I returned my cabas, so I feel like this takes the place of that bag. I love the chain on this bag. I am carrying the grey today. It is hot! And before anyone tells me to post pics, I am so bad at technology! I have tried taking pics of me wearing a bag and I don't know how ya'll do it. Mine don't come out where you can see anything. I can have my daughter take pics, but I kinda keep this forum secret if you know what I mean. They do not understand how mom needs new bags!